Best Friend Forever?

aKopie von IMG_8259 copy 1 Best friend is one whom we are comfortable with.

That person is the one we love to be with always, share and talk with all the time and carries our joy & sorrow.

We share our heart and our desire with each other and

But when it comes to best friend between two gender, do you think that a guy & a girl can remain as best friend forever – without becoming a couple later on?

Do you think that a guy and a girl can be best friend and share their emotion to each other without falling in love for each other?

Why yes and why not?

8 Comments

  1. 1
    chi Says:

    wow..really though provoking. o.O

    personally i will think why not?? i’ve got male best friends too..maybe i can just call them as “closer friends” instead of “best friends” gua. Since you describe

    “Best friend is one whom we are comfortable with. That person is the one we love to be with always, share and talk with all the time and carries our joy & sorrow. We share our heart and our desire with each other.”

    you said,
    “But when it comes to best friend between two gender, do you think that a guy & a girl can remain as best friend forever – without becoming a couple later on?”

    i think there is a high chance for them to fall in love with each other (that will be the best among best friends-special best friend) but also, it maybe depends on both of them. will one of the guy or girl would just like to remain as best friends?

    one thing i would like to know – – can we have more than one best friend?

  2. 3
    chi Says:

    no. haha.. coz i believe a couple started with being best friends first..your wife is your best friend as well. =)

    just wonder, while you have this BEST FRIEND who is now your boyfriend/girlfriend, izit possible to have another best friend who is in different gender? definitely not gonna be the same with the BEST FRIEND you already have rite…..

    • 4
      MikeLeo Says:

      Once you have a date or once you get married, it is wise not to have best friend from another gender.

      Your date or your spouse SHOULD be your best friend. Or else, why both of you commit to each other?

  3. 5
    chi Says:

    i see..thanks ps mike for posting about this. definitely learnt something here..

    but many people failed to commit to each other that’s why ended up in divorce or break ups..how sad.

    • 6
      MikeLeo Says:

      That’s why you need God before starting any relationship and certainly more of God after you get married.

  4. 7
    Sue Says:

    very thought provoking….


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